The Power of Love - 8 steps to becoming more confident

1. Surround yourself with people who sincerely like you otherwise be alone - aim for jobs where you will have a rapport with others.
2. Feel yourself as an equal with every being, young or old, black or white, male or female etc. Feeling yourself greater or less than anyone is opperating at the most insecure level.
3. "Swearing is always cool - it is never uncool". What is the problem with this statement - you may never stop swearing even at work, walking on the street etc etc. Draw from what is trendy in life as long as it ensures your coolness in all areas of life. (Note that in threatening situations it may be best not to look cool but blend into the crowd).
4. Know when eye contact is appropriate or not.
5. Develop an alternative taste in music as it will make you culturally sensitive.
6. Don't assume you know what successful people or happy people are doing right - ask them first - they will always be happy to talk to you.
7. Avoid any guilt associated with food and put enjoyment of food ahead of nutrition.
8. Aim to make others confident - this fuels oneness, joy, laughter and enthusiasm.